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Dave Conrey's avatar

Speaking only for myself, as a Dave, I know how to take no for an answer.

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Sarah Miller's avatar

This was a great post. I don't have a problem saying no (nor do I get hung up on what people think of me when I do; probably neither of these statements is much of a surprise), but I do often lack the *language* I'd like around what I'm trying to say. Sometimes I even Google, "how to say no to..." whatever it may be because I literally need the words. When in doubt, I go with, "Thanks for reaching out, but I'm not interested" or "Thanks, but it's not a good fit right now." Or whatever. If people don't like it -- or me -- that's their shit, not mine. Boundaries 🔥

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